Premarital Sex.

An infringement on the rights of the individuals is what one Patrick Benlag thinks premarital sex is.


After reading his article, I knew the writer was somehow confused.

When issues comes to sex, I kinda read different submissions.
Coming from moral background, as an unmarried youth, you have no business with sex.


I see sex as one of those gifts attached to being married.
You enjoy it as a communication between your spouse.
It becomes something that deepens your intimacy with your spouse.


But in this 21st century, it's an upside down ideology.

Kids of 15 years have bothered their fragile brain with sex and it's escapades.
Little wonder the lack of Academic excellence and Moral values.
The pornographic industry on the other hand , is wreaking unimaginable havoc on people, psychologically, and emotionally.


Making sex look like a game.
Where everyone is a player.
The perversion they propagate.
Hypnotizing the minds, creating unimaginable fantasies.
There is so much sexual perversion in the land.

Even if you ain't seeing it from a moral background.
Its obvious that something is wrong.

The question of if premarital sex is sin resurfaces.
Truly what's the idea behind it?

To know the sexuality and strength of your supposed partner, isn't it?
And then if your own fantasies isn't met, you dump and move to the next one? Oh really?
Many have said, that they kept the bed undefiled , then after the wedding, they saw something different.

So many stories arise and different perceptions.

As a Christian, you can't judge your life with the standard of the world, using it as a yardstick to juxtapose how fantastic your marriage would be.

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Those that look out for numerous qualities and ingredients with sexual perceptions, end up exposing themselves to countless women or men as the case may be, looking out for such qualities, and in the end, settle down for someone, more terrible than their fantasies.
I haven't seen a complete marriage, or individuals.


You can't be looking for your missing ribs , when you have complete ribs.
Marriage is the coming together of two incomplete entities, coming together to make a complete union.

One must lack something.

So thinking, premarital sex would help you to find that missing ribs, you might end up messing yourself up with the whole women in your community.
Point is, as a young man or woman, you were exposed to so many taste, and in that taste, you looking for a spouse that has all the taste of your youth in one piece, which is practically impossible.
Taste drives people into premarital sex.


Lynxx, a Nigerian Artiste has this to say,

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And its wrong.

Be wise and do the right thing.
He or she may dump you after that experience.
Sex is not a guarantee of happy marriage, but an ingredient.

I am Emmanuel Iwuchukwu.